A year ago – almost to the day – I went for a walk in the woods.
With Frog strapped firmly to my chest I donned my new wellies and went splashing in puddles with my friend and her little boy, Arthur. We chased after Boots, the beautiful black Labrador, and built piles of sticks next to a hollow log.
At the time, Arthur was two and a half. Throughout the walk he was in a world of his own. One minute he was driving a train, the next he was boarding a bus, then he was tooting the horn, then he was taking passengers’ tickets. It was the first time he had ever completely lost himself in his own imagination and, as a new mum with all this to look forward to, it was thrilling to see.
For that afternoon, I also lost myself. I forgot the difficult decisions I had to make regarding my return to work after maternity leave. I forgot the pile of freelance emails I had yet to send and my apprehension at going it alone, without a guaranteed regular monthly pay cheque.
Instead, I waded through puddles and played like a toddler.
It was a rare moment of light in what, looking back, was a time full of worry…
Luckily, Arthur’s mum, my wonderful friend Caroline, was there to capture the whole afternoon. Looking at these pictures takes me right back to those two hours a year ago, when the light danced on the water and I remembered how to have fun.
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blurbinsuburbia says
…lovely happy pics, especially loving the last one. I’m forever saying ‘don’t step in the puddles, you don’t have your wellies on’…what a spoilsport, will now make a point of taking wellies in car for just those sort of ‘splashy’ occasions!
mothersalwaysright says
I definitely recommend keeping wellies for emergency puddle-jumping situations!
Honest Mum says
Gorgeous post, really poignant. We’ve all been there. Great lesson to remind us to have more fun and less worry in our lives. Thank you x
Shannon Pruitt from 'Mynewfavoriteday' says
This is so beautiful Molly. I love the pictures and your ability to capture time in a bottle in this post is magical. I feel like I am there with you, wading and forgetting all the other things that await me even now! Hope you find some of that light today!
mothersalwaysright says
Thanks Shannon. When I found these pictures it took me right back to this time last year. It was a great day. x
Circus Queen says
You’ve got the most gorgeous accessory right there!
mothersalwaysright says
She’s not bad, granted…
Crystal Jigsaw says
Oh wow! Those are beautiful pictures and exceptionally beautiful words. Thanks for sharing.
CJ x
mothersalwaysright says
Ah, thanks CJ. x
Notmyyearoff says
Love your face in that first picture!!
mothersalwaysright says
Nothing like a bit of puddle jumping for excitement!
mutteringsofafool says
They are fab, really capture the moment and nothing better than forgetting your worries and jumping in some puddles. No matter how old you are…
mothersalwaysright says
Couldn’t agree more!
Deborah the Closet Monster says
That last picture is amazing. Just amazing.
I love those rare things that transport me from worry now; there’s so much worry most the time now.
mothersalwaysright says
I can definitely recommend finding some huge puddles with your boy. Nothing like losing yourself by jumping in big puddles to distract from worry. x
sarahmumof3 says
I love these photos there is nothing better than a toddler and some puddles to remind you to have some fun 🙂 x
mothersalwaysright says
Never has a truer word been said!
MsXpat says
Lovely post and the pics really capture the mood. Looks like an awesome day out.
mothersalwaysright says
Lovely memories from that day. So lucky to have brilliant photos to remember it by.
Mags says
Great pictures! Love the last one with the dog – it’s very sweet!
mothersalwaysright says
It’s gorgeous isn’t it? One of my favourites.
Natalie says
I love the last photo- looks like you had a lovely day!
mothersalwaysright says
It was great, thank you. Good memories!
Emma (@mummymummymum) says
gorgeous photo’s 🙂 You look very happy!
mothersalwaysright says
Thanks lovely, it was a brilliant afternoon. x
Caroline says
How do you always manage to bring a tear to my eye?! We have had and will have so many special times, Molly! Your friendship has meant the world to both me and Arthur – what incredible memories 🙂 Thank you xxx Oh and we have moved on from ‘wading’ to ‘rolling’ in muddy puddles…
mothersalwaysright says
We’ll have to try the rolling in puddles game when F eventually gets up and starts walking!
northernmum says
Lovely x
(Nice wellies as well)
mothersalwaysright says
Cath Kidston daaaahling…
LParent says
Beautiful images and story, thanks for sharing.
mothersalwaysright says
Thank you!